If you’re lucky, you haven’t had to date in a long time. This Sunday is Valentine’s Day and it has me reflecting on dating during a pandemic.
Some time in early March, I decided it was time to start dating again. I did what most people my age do: downloaded an array of dating apps to my phone. I’m sure some of our readers believe dating apps are not “the right way” to meet a potential partner, but for me, I felt there were very few other options out there.
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